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No Mere Mortals

Marriage for People Who Will Live Forever

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Toby Sumpter is a pastor at Christ Church, founding co-host of the CrossPolitic show and podcast, and author of Job Through New Eyes: A Son for Glory and Blood Bought World. He writes regularly at his blog Having Two Legs. He and his wife, Jenny, live in Moscow, Idaho, with their four children.

AUTHOR: Toby Sumpter 

PAGE COUNT: 220 pages

SIZE: 5.5x8.5"

SKU: F-223

PRICE: $18.95

FORMAT: HARDBACK

ISBN-10: 1952410622

ISBN-13: 9781952410628

PUB. DATE: December 1, 2020

PAGE COUNT: 288

A man should look at his wife or fiancée and gasp.

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Do you know what God has given you (or is in the process of giving you)?

That woman, that terrifying, glorious woman made in His image, was created by God and redeemed with the precious blood of Jesus, and the Holy Spirit has taken up residence in her. She is of immense value to God. She is precious to Him. She is His daughter, an heir of the promise, a co-heir of the grace of life with you.

Do you feel that?

Does it make your chest knot up?

Do you get a little bit afraid? Maybe a lot afraid?

Good. Hold that pose.

In recent decades, we have reduced marriage to a permanent roommate situation with sexual benefits. But marriage is not about something as low-stakes as “who gets to control the remote.”

Your husband or wife is no mere mortal, but an eternal soul who is going to grow closer to God or further from Him because they are married to you. Add children to the mix—even more eternal souls!

That’s why the biblical picture of the family is something far more powerful, far more dangerous, far more glorious—far more like a nuclear reactor than anything else in modern society.

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This book is for you if you're: 

Newlyweds

You just got married and you’re wanting to make sure the cement dries and the foundation is plumb.

Married for years

You’re looking for some retooling, a refresher, a little brush-up on this whole marriage thing.

Married and in trouble

You’re looking for real, clear help. Now.

Engaged

You’re just engaged and looking to start off your new life together on the right path.

Here's what you'll get in this book.

  1. Biblical foundations for the covenant of marriage
    1. Marry in the Lord 
      The true blessing of Christian marriage
    2. Rightly Ordered Love Life
      The priorities of Christian reverence
    3. Taking Out the Garbage
      The differences and duties of forgiveness and trust
    4. Covenant Asymmetry 
      The freedom and splendor of God-ordained roles
  2. A clear understanding of his headship and her submission - Ephesians 5:22-33
    1. Submission in the Lord
      The free commitment to a husband’s authority
    2. Don’t Shipwreck the Headship
      The man’s role to assume and speak as the authority
    3. Going into the Fire First 
      The glory of a husband ready to die and lead first
    4. Water of the Word
      The mystery of marriage and responsibility to nourish and cherish a wife
  3. Wisdom to stay faithful and obedient when marriage gets difficult- 1 Peter 3:1-7
    1. Deeper Magic, Deeper Power
      The wisdom and power of God in your weakness
    2. How to Win a Man
      The virtues that catch and win a man without a word
    3. Biblical Beauty
      The beauty of a woman dying and rising daily in Christ
    4. Whose Daughters You Are
      The fruitful obedience and motherhood of the daughters of Sarah
    5. Dwelling with Knowledge
      The understanding and intimacy between husband and wife
    6. Strength to Honor the Weaker Vessel
      The strength and prayers of a man for her honorable weakness
  4. Answers to big questions about sex, divorce, weddings, compatibility, and more 
    1. Babies, Birth Control, and Barrenness
      The wisdom of life “better than” foolishness
    2. How Far Is Too Far?
      The preparation today for your practices tomorrow
    3. What Do You Think About….?
      The expectations and answers every engaged couple must have
    4. What the Bible Says about Divorce
      The defense and violence of divorce and moving on
    5. A Theology of Wedding & Receptions
      The essentials and meaning of a covenant in community
    6. Sample Wedding Ceremony
      The elements of the ceremony


 

The No Mere Mortals workbook contains:  

  • Discussion questions to No Mere Mortals
  • Space for you both to record your answers 
  • Activities
  • Takeaways and highlights
  • Additional "study the Word" sections for each chapter. 
  • A suggested premarital counseling guide to take couples through No Mere Mortals in eight weeks. 

No Mere Mortals: Marriage for People Who Will Live Forever shows how husbands can lead their wives, and how wives can follow their husbands, and how both together, building on the firm foundation of Jesus Christ, can shape future generations and the world.

Customers praised this marriage book as "life-changing" and "convicting," with many calling it the best marriage resource they've read. Reviewers appreciated the biblical foundation, clear writing style, and eternal perspective on marriage. Multiple shoppers bought additional copies as gifts. One customer noted minor reservations about one topic but overall highly recommended it.

  • 5 stars: 31 (94%)
  • 4 stars: 2 (6%)
  • 3 stars: 0 (0%)
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Chris C.
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No Mere Mortals: Marriage for People Who Will Live Forever

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Sarah G.
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No Mere Mortals: Marriage for People Who Will Live Forever

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Zach

Truly enjoyed this book. Read it and then started it again with my wife and she’s enjoying it as well

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Mrs L.R.D.
Paperback
The hope and glory!!

It is with great delight, pleasure, and fortitude that I review this book. Tobys sermons and book, along with the accompanying workbook, have fundamentally changed our marriage towards glory and have had great weight in our home. Thank you Toby and Canon Press for this delightful and direct, instructive and intelligent, hopeful and helpful tome. Faithfull blessings to all who receive this resource!

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M.L.R.D.

It’s wonderful!!!

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M.L.R.D.

Best book!! Truly life changing

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Rachel L.
Paperback
Love it!

Highly recommend!

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Caleb

Good stuff in here

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Tay H.
Paperback
A third purchase

I listened to this on Canon+, my husband bought a copy, and this copy was for a wedding gift. I hope to buy many more as I am sure no married couple can ignore the bold truths Pastor Toby shares. The best marriage book I’ve read.

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Bethany A.
Paperback
Such a good read

No Mere Mortals has been one of the absolute best books on marriage I have read. Toby Sumpter does a masterful job at giving you a full, rich view on God’s good design of marriage. He writes with boldness, truth, and timeliness — which is lacking in so many books on the topic. He hits the nail right on the head. To anyone considering reading it — do not hesitate! I’ve already read it three times and it just gets better with each read. If you were to only have one book on marriage in your library, this would be it.

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Alex C.
Paperback
No Mere Mortals

Fantastic resource! Clear and Christ centered.

100% Recommend for both engaged couples and those that are already married. A very needed resource in our time! The fundamentals of entering into and sustaining a Christ glorifying marriage are explained in such a clear and systematic way. I thank the Lord for having pastor Toby put this together for us.

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Owen A.
Hardback
Recommending to Every Couple I know for Pre-engagement

Listened to audio version read by Toby on Cannon Plus, might make it an annual tradition to do so. Bought a hard copy afterwards for my fiancé. She's not even done reading and she's got a list of people she's planning to buy it for.

Highly highly highly recommended. Intended for married/engaged people but your young adults would benefit from this healthy dose of thoroughly biblical theology and vision for what a rightly ordered and God-glorifying marriage should be.

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Katie S.
Hardback
Excellent

Wonderful book.

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Cody C.I.
Hardback
Excellent

Good book. Hopeful, would recommend

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Sean T.

Bought for my two daughters who loved the book.

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Lea S.
Hardback
Excellent! Loved it!

A fresh take on the Biblical passages on marriage. I would love to hand this to couples getting ready to tie the knot. There was only one thing out of left field (Sir?), but other with that caveat, I would highly recommend it.

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Mitchell
Hardback
Excellent and Convicting

This book is one I will return to time and time again. My original expectations were that it wasn’t going to be anything new compared to Doug Wilson’s marriage books but I was very happily mistaken. Extremely well written and filled with biblical truths on marriage that are encouraging as well as convicting. I will continue to encourage every Christian married or soon to be married couple to read this book.

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Amber J.
Hardback
No Mere Mortals

The title couldn't be more spot on. I've been reading this book with the Sheologians book club and as a wife, my goodness. This was eye opening to what I need to focus more on and let go of. The view it gave me of what Bibical marriage is in the Bible, changed the view of my marriage and the way I do and should look at my husband. Thank you Toby for writing it out so spot on that any true Christian should understand.

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Gwen B.
Hardback
Beautiful

One of the best and most joyful books I've ever read of any genre. First, it is simply easy. Even if you aren't much of a reader, you won't have trouble with this book. You feel like you're chatting with Toby over a cup of coffee. His style is effortless and conversational. Second, the truths here are beyond beautiful, encouraging, and convicting. Even if you aren't married (or thinking about getting married), there are lessons here about men and women, obedience, forgiveness, purity, repentance, and glory that every person needs.

I'd heard lots of marriage teaching from the covenant angle, but none that started where Toby starts here: you are an immortal. You will live forever. You will be a creature of glory (or a Gollum) for eternity. That is who you are, and that is who you will marry. THEREFORE, what do we think about headship? Submission? Beauty? Sex? Motherhood? Female pastors? Female cops? Effeminate men? Marriage vows? Birth control? Porn? Divorce?

I've known forever that marriage is a picture of Christ and the church, but until this book, I hadn't quite seen how. This is a life-changing read. I couldn't put it down, and I didn't want it to end.

"Be good. Get married. Keep your vows. Live forever."

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Justin D.
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Great book for book clubs

My wife has really enjoyed reading this book as part of book club with the Shealogians. And her and I have had some great conversation about the content.

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Sonia A.
Great book club choice

No mere mortals is my book clubs choice this month. I am loving it so far. The writer is very clear and direct, it’s an easy book to understand. I knew marriage was important, but he breaks it down for you to truly understand the importance of the bride of Christ. Can’t wait to finish it.

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Customer

A fantastic book on marriage that I highly recommend to anyone currently or soon-to-be married.

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Kevin P.
Recommended for all!

I learned so much from this book, not only about marriage itself, but about the Bible's teachings on masculinity, femininity, the family, education, and more. It is an excellent exposition of Biblical texts, and also entertaining to read! By the way, I am not currently married or engaged, and yet I still found the book to be very valuable. Highly recommended.

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Kyle R.
Bringing about fruitful conversation and conviction

This is a great book it has brought good healthy conversation for me and my wife. We are just being convinced, convicted, and encouraged in so many great ways. Praise God for this resource.

We bought a copy for our engaged friend and plan on buying two more for two other friends. Not just to make them a happy household but to build up Christ’s Kingdom in the by way of Marital propagation lol. But seriously!

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Ben V.W.
So Helpful!

I have not fully read the book yet, but the first several chapters has been helpful. It brings the eternal mindset to my marriage. Many promises from Scripture is provided, this is a Biblically sounds book. It has already helped improve our marriage, my relationship with the Lord, and being a father.

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mary d.

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Kris C.
Excellent book, great customer service, fast efficient delivery!

Love the book! Love Cannon Press! Very happy customer here!

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Angelo B.
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KEEP PREACHING THE WORD OF GOD MIS MANOS✝️

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